Jennifer Lopez is taking what serves her and leaving everything else behind.

The Justice League alum, known for his preference for privacy when it comes to personal matters, has reportedly had to accept that Jennifer Lopez processes their shared history differently. Although Ben Affleck might wish for more discretion, the insider mentioned that he understands that Lopez needs to address the breakup on her terms.

They said, “They had no prenup, which complicates things, and what’s at stake are the assets they acquired together during their marriage — the $60 million house they’ve listed for $68 million, and the production company Artists Equity Ben formed with Matt Damon two years ago, which Jennifer also has a stake in.”